This week our family recognized a significant milestone – 40 years since the death of Inka van Seventer McDowell. Though I never knew her, I look forward to meeting this sister in heaven one day. I know she both suffered and surrendered for all the people that we both love.
Three decades ago, I sat on the floor in our Seattle attic after uncovering a little ceramic plaque. I wept in realizing how letting go must be one of the hardest choices a person ever has to make.
The plaque displayed a Dutch prayer, the English translation carefully handwritten on the back by a young Dutch mother who had made her home in the United States.
- Father, I lay the names of my children in Your hands.
- Engrave their names therein with permanent script.
- Allow nothing and no one ever to burn them out.
- Though Satan may seek to sift them as wheat.
- Hold fast to them when I must let go.
- And always let your power stand above their weakness.
- You know how merciless the world will hate them
- If they do not walk or follow in its way.
- I do not ask You to spare my children every sorrow,
- But be their comfort when they are lonely and afraid.
- For your name’s sake keep them in your covenant.
- Let them never stray from You, never as long as life shall last!
- I lay the names of my children in Your hands. Amen.
True surrender is freely choosing to let go—laying all in God’s capable hands.
Can you live today with that sort of abandoned trust in God?
I’m grateful that Dutch mama opened her hands and laid her children in God’s larger ones. The symbolic act became a literal one when she died all too young from cancer. But God was faithful. One day he placed those same children into the hands of another young woman who had surrendered her long desire to be a mother. Me.
One of the greatest grace gifts I have ever received is the privilege of adopting Inka and Mike’s children and raising them to adulthood where they continue to know God’s great care and enjoy full lives of service and surrender.
Lord, opening my clenched fists is such a challenge—I want to hold tightly to what I have. And yet I know it is only through surrender—letting go—that I can receive all You desire to give me. Please help me learn how to both relinquish and receive. Amen.
May the grace of Christ, the love of God, and the friendship of the Holy Spirit bring you comfort and strength, Lucinda
“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”
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Lucinda Secrest McDowell is a storyteller and seasoned mentor who engages both heart and mind while “Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity & Strength.” She has authored 15 books including “Soul Strong – 7 Keys to a Vibrant Life” and “Life-Giving Choices – 60 Days to What Matters Most.” She writes from “Sunnyside” cottage in New England and shares encouraging words at LucindaSecrestMcDowell.com
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