All the things. Good things. Worthy things. Extraordinary people, adventurous journeys, breathtaking beauty, life-changing words, fulfilling service, quiet moments, and soul-stretching creativity.
But how do I choose?
My own life is full of obligation, hurry, complicated relationships, work demands, health challenges—all seasoned with occasional bouts of guilt and insecurity. Because I can’t do it all. I can’t be it all. Too often choices are already made for me in the flash of a need to be filled or a last-minute request granted.
I tell myself, “It’s all good.” I am not struggling between the lesser of two evils; but usually between two equally good things. My challenge is how to discern what matters most.
God offers a path that brings life to us — that which enriches our existence rather than crushes our spirit. “For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until the day of Christ’s return.” Philippians 1:10
We can choose.
It is actually within our power to decide each day how we will live out the numerous interruptions, joys, crises, and surprises that come our way.
When I feel alone in my secret struggles, I can choose connection instead of isolation. When headlines are frightening, I can choose courage instead of fear. When people break my heart, I can choose healing instead of despair. And when the world is a cacophony of chaos, I can choose silence, calm, and serenity.
Are you ready to choose what matters most?
But there is a caveat—every time we say yes to one choice, we must inevitably say no to something else. To let go of much in order to embrace less. To relinquish productivity in order to rest. To break down the polished façade in order to live with authenticity.
I hope you will join me here on the Encouraging Words Blog throughout the rest of this year as I offer one biblical choice that has helped change my life.
You know that choice you need to make right now? Ask yourself if it is life-draining or life-giving. Then, choose life!
Lord, I give up. I’m tired of trying to do all and be all, only to end up disappointing everyone, myself, and, I feel, even You. Will You help me begin to intentionally make choices for life through Your Word and Your way? Starting today, and through Holy Spirit power, I begin. Amen.
May the grace of Christ, the love of God, and the friendship of the Holy Spirit bring you comfort and strength, Lucinda
“Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity and Strength”
©2021 Lucinda Secrest McDowell www.LucindaSecrestMcDowell.com
Lucinda Secrest McDowell is a storyteller and seasoned mentor who engages both heart and mind while “Helping You Choose a Life of Serenity & Strength.” She has authored 15 books including “Soul Strong – 7 Keys to a Vibrant Life” and “Life-Giving Choices – 60 Days to What Matters Most.” She writes from “Sunnyside” cottage in New England and shares encouraging words at LucindaSecrestMcDowell.com
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